Masturbation is a personal pleasure activity that involves stimulating one’s own genitals and anus for sexual arousal and orgasm. Whether you call it masturbation, wanking, rubbing one out or any other term, it is a healthy and normal part of sexual pleasure that can be used by both men and women. Despite its sexually explicit nature, masturbation has a bit of a stigma attached to it with some harmful myths like the notion that men who use toys need help or are perverted. Luckily, sex toys have come a long way in the past decade with celebrity-minted products and a more mainstream acceptance that it is perfectly OK for straight men to enjoy them too.
One of the most popular sex toys for men is a male masturbator, which can be found in a variety of designs and styles to satisfy the tastes of many different people. Some of the best male masturbators are designed with a vibrator, which adds another level of pleasure sensation to the experience. Others are crafted with arousing textures that are great for stimulating the skin. Some of the best male masturbators also include a remote, which makes them even more convenient to use.
If you’re new to sex toys, it’s a good idea to start with a simple masturbator that can be used solo or during intercourse. If you’re looking for more of a thrill, try out a sex toy that can be used with a partner or to simulate foreplay. It’s also a great idea to experiment with simultaneous toy masturbation, where both you and your partner can use the same sex toy at the same time.
The TENGA Spider Egg is a skin-safe luxury male masturbator that features a rounded end to fully cover the penis, as well as inner patterns to intensify pleasure sensations. It can be squirted with a lubricant to enhance the stimulation and comes with a sachet of TENGA lube to get you started.
Aside from being a fun and exciting sexual tool, a male masturbator can be used to overcome problems such as delayed or premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. It can also be a great addition to partnered play, if you’re working with the help of a sex therapist or other professional.
Keeping your male masturbator clean is important to avoid discomfort and irritation, so make sure you always use plenty of lubricant and wipe down the toy after each use. It’s also a good idea to warm your masturbator up before use and to always use it in a private place where you won’t be disturbed by anyone else.
If you are finding yourself masturbating more and more frequently or for longer periods of time, it may be a sign that your masturbation is turning into self-abuse. If this is the case, it’s important to speak with a doctor or counselor who can guide you through an intervention and treatment plan to address the issue.